What does your appearance say about you?

A person's appearance is an outward reflection of his/herself, whether intentional or not. Your appearance whether it's your cloths, jewelry, shoes, style of your hair makes a statement about who you are. Part of the reason that it takes me so long to get dressed sometimes is because my style is usually a reflection of how I'm feeling. If I get up feeling energetic, I usually want to wear something that shows a bit of edge. However, if I'm not feeling well or in a grumpy mood, my outfit will most likely be chosen based on comfort than style. I'm also conscious of what I need to do for the day and dress appropriately, whether I'm going to a conference or out with my friends.

Though I think everyone should express themselves freely through their appearance, it's best to keep in mind the messages you're sending. For example, ladies if men can't seem to focus during a conversation, it could quite possibly have to do with that button you conveniently forgot to fasten or the lack of inches on the bottom of your skirt. This never gives a man a right to lose his mind and say or act inappropriately, but please keep in mind that wearing a revealing outfit may provoke undesired attention. Gentlemen, if you keep attracting immature women or someone that just isn't quite meeting your standards maybe you want to consider wearing an outfit that doesn't look like it's pulled straight from a Nike ad. I'm not criticizing these clothing choices by any means, both styles I've worn at some point. However, I've taken note to when and where certain styles are appropriate and the message that I'm trying to portray. If I want to be relaxed I'll throw on a sweatshirt and jeans, but I do realize if I'm going to Nordstrom or Lord & Taylor the sales person may be reluctant to think I have any real purchasing power. Not to say it's right, but I do know it happens. I know that that a more "professional" appearance tends to command more attention and respect.

So what does your appearance say about you? Are you not getting that promotion you really wanted or attention from the right man/woman? Could it have something to do with your appearance? It might be worth taking a look in the mirror to make sure you're sending the desired messages.